Computer Love: Relationships and Facebook

-By Jontae Grace Do me a favor. Change your relationship status to, “In a Relationship” for one hour. If you’re taken, then change it to “Single”. Now watch what happens. You probably got more comments and likes than you did on your birthday, didn’t you? Some people were happy, some outraged that you would play…

Your Mate is a Reflection of YOU.

-By Jontae Grace I’ve been sitting on this one for awhile, unsure if my message would be overshadowed by my word choice. But knowledge concealed is not knowledge at all, so here it is. Today and henceforth I am going to challenge my Brothas as well as myself. I want us to begin to use…

Black Love-Professionals

-By Jontae Grace The Barbershop is the only place where you can discuss anything from hood news to religious views, all in the same sitting. I was getting lined up from a rather philosophical barber when he said, “You can’t tell most of these professional Black Women shit. And they wonder why they alone. You…

Back To Relationship Basics

Although we’re in the twenty-first century, we don’t fly around in jet packs or teleport yet. But the microwave generation has taken quantum leaps forward, thanks to the technology that we use to enhance our personal and professional lives. We can interact with people around the corner, or around the world, in seconds. Unfortunately, a…

Black Women, Men and the Problem of Religion

I have met few women who are as committed to a belief or a person as a Black Woman. At their best, Black Women will follow you to Mars without Oxygen if she believed in you. At their worst, that blind devotion can cause her to become stiff-necked and stubborn as a mule. Throw religion…